fix: show only relevant userInfoActions for mentioned non-members (#31525)

.changeset/ninety-hounds-exist.md

apps/meteor/app/api/server/v1/rooms.ts

apps/meteor/client/views/hooks/useMemberExists.ts

apps/meteor/client/views/room/UserCard/UserCardWithData.tsx

...ews/room/contextualBar/RoomMembers/RoomMembersActions.tsx

...ent/views/room/contextualBar/UserInfo/UserInfoActions.tsx

...oom/hooks/useUserInfoActions/actions/useAddUserAction.tsx

...views/room/hooks/useUserInfoActions/useUserInfoActions.ts

apps/meteor/client/views/room/lib/getRoomDirectives.ts

...meteor/tests/e2e/user-card-info-actions-by-member.spec.ts

...or/tests/e2e/user-card-info-actions-by-room-owner.spec.ts

apps/meteor/tests/end-to-end/api/rooms.ts

packages/i18n/src/locales/en.i18n.json

packages/rest-typings/src/v1/rooms.ts