chore: bump meteor and node version (#34048)

.github/workflows/ci-code-check.yml

.github/workflows/ci-deploy-gh-pages.yml

.github/workflows/ci.yml

.github/workflows/new-release.yml

.github/workflows/pr-update-description.yml

.github/workflows/publish-release.yml

.github/workflows/release-candidate.yml

.github/workflows/update-version-durability.yml

.yarn/patches/mongodb-npm-4.17.2-40d1286d70.patch

.yarn/patches/mongodb-npm-6.10.0-b914157c35.patch

apps/meteor/.docker-mongo/Dockerfile

apps/meteor/.docker/Dockerfile.alpine

apps/meteor/.docker/Dockerfile.debian

apps/meteor/.meteor/packages

apps/meteor/.meteor/release

apps/meteor/.meteor/versions

apps/meteor/app/api/server/lib/emailInbox.ts

apps/meteor/app/apps/server/bridges/scheduler.ts

apps/meteor/app/apps/server/bridges/settings.ts

apps/meteor/app/assets/server/assets.ts